What I DON’T WANT in my Life. February

December 9, 2008 by Admin 

Most of us think about the things that we want in our lives, the ideal job, the great car, and that fabulous house.

We tend not to look at the things that we DON’T WANT. That lousy job that we hate going to everyday, that crapy car that breaks down every second day, and the house that needs so much work and is not big enough to accommodate the pets let alone the family.

Knowing what you don’t want actually assists in attracting the things that you do want. It clears the run way.

I have a gratitude journal where I write down daily the things that I am grateful for, and the things that I want to attract into my life. I feel good when I am writing in my journal and experiencing the feeling of gratitude for the things that I have now and the things that I know are coming.

One day I thought, I am listing all these things that I do want how about I start listing the things that I don’t want. It was half through the month so I started small and listed the things that I didn’t want in my life for the rest of the month. I listed two things that month and they did not come into my life that month and have not since.

As a ritual, at the beginning of each month I list in my gratitude journal the things that I do not want in my life for that month and it works a treat.

I now realize I am saying to the universe, “don’t give me this crap because I will not accept it”. The universe gives what we are thinking about, if we are thinking about not having this crap we will not have it.

The challenge is to write down the things that you do not want in your life for the month of February, be realistic and start small.

An example may be that car that is breaking down every second day. Write down, by the end of February I do not want this broken down old car in my life. You may have a bill that you need to pay by the end of the month and at the moment you do not have the money to do that, you would write, ” by the end of February I do not want this bill in my life.

Being clear on what we don’t want can be more powerfull than being clear on what we do want.

Take up the challenge and share with us your experiences, we are here to support one another.

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